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When my husband and
I first looked at Montessori as a potential
education system for our children 12 years
ago, we went to a 2 day Montessori Directresses
Conference in Sydney. At the end of the
conference a number of high school students,
who had been Montessori primary students,
stood on a stage in front of 400 adults
and spoke about their experiences in transitioning
from Montessori primary to main stream high
school.
Those children were
composed, confident and articulate. We decided
right then that if our children could be
half as composed, confident and articulate
as those on the stage, we would be absolutely
delighted.
Last night at the
Information Night, not only did our son
volunteer to present his work, but he was
determined to get us there despite a last
minute transport issue. I watched my 11
year old son stand in front of a room full
of adults and present his work. He was composed,
confident, articulate, funny and gracious.
I could not be more
proud of my son and I need to thank every
single one of the teaching staff for the
love, skill and great care that has been
consistently displayed to him over the last
4 years (even when he has often been the
most challenging student in
class).
The Gisborne
Montessori teaching team are, without question,
the absolute cream of the crop. Once again,
thank you most sincerely.
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A Parents'
Perspective - Why We Send Our Children to Montessori
'One of the key reasons is to allow our son the
opportunity to practice his choice making skills
well before his teenage years. The majority of
schools do not allow children to make any choices
for themselves during the course of their school
day. By the time my child leaves Montessori he
will have had 9 years of solid decision making
practice ranging from what time to stop for snack
to his next work topic as well as his choice of
behaviour. He experiences the pleasure of good
decision as well as bearing the consequences of
not-so-good decisions
I am very clear that
I do not want my son's first experience of decision
making to be when he is 18 years old at a party
where alcohol, drugs and the opposite sex may
be involved!' Mother of Cycle 2 child
'Because it is dedicated to peace.' Mother
of Cycle 2 child.
'Because it caters for my children's individual
needs.' Mother of Cycle 1 child.
'Because my wife said that was where the kids
were going to go to school!' Dad of Cycle 2
child
'We wanted an education system that was the
same all around the world as we had planned to
travel extensively while the children were still
young. This has been such a bonus as our children's
education has been fantastic and made settling
into another country so much easier. The children
walked into their new classroom, picked up a piece
of equipment they were familiar with and got on
with their work. It made the settling in period
in a new country so much easier and gave us real
peace of mind.' Parents of Cycle 2 children.
'Our children love going to school here. The
hardest part of the day is getting them OUT at
the end of each day. There is no Monday morning
'I feel sick Mum' routine like I used to try on
when I was in primary school. They absolutely
love coming here - every Information Night I attend
makes me wish there was a Montessori school for
parents too!' Parents of Cycle 2 and 3 students.
'The children are encouraged to believe that
anything is possible for them to achieve. The
approach is holistic and the children are encouraged
to be independent learners. The teachers stimulates
a need to learn and a love of learning and the
children develop at an individual pace. Why wouldn't
I send my child here??' From a parent discussion
at an Information Night.
'When I studied Maths at school the whole
class learnt the same thing at the same time.
You had to 'get it' when every body else did.
The teacher moved on and if you hadn't 'got it'
you were left to flounder. It's no wonder that
I dread maths. I want my child to learn at her
own pace - without the fear of desperately trying
to keep up with everybody else. She is becoming
a confident learner - and that is absolutely priceless.'
From a discussion with a Cycle 1 parent.
'My very intelligent wife ultimately made
the decision (mothers do know best) to afford
our children a Montessori education. She did so
because the research she performed on the teaching
methodology prior to enrolling our precious offspring
was all positive. This will ensure that their
most important/impressionable years for developing
basic; academic, cognitive, coordination, decision
making and cooperation skills are given the greatest
opportunity. Why wouldn't we offer our children
the chance to acquire the skills boasted by some
of today's super businessmen who put their success
down to a Montessori education.' From a Father
of Cycle 1 students in an email written on a business
trip.
'Everyone gets on so well here. There are
no tears and fights here. The kids work here with
a purpose rather than wandering around all day.
When you hear about Montessori at University it
sounds so weird and you just can't imagine how
it could possibly work. But once you see it, you
immediately understand. It really is amazing.
You have to see it - you can't read about it.''
Discussion with two Victoria University - Melton
Campus - Students Studying the Diploma of Childcare
students who came to visit the school in May 2005.
'As a mother of 4, I have 4 different reasons
for choosing Montessori as my preferred method.
My children are 19, 15, 12, 10. My oldest is studying
working towards her chosen career interstate.
She thanked me recently for helping her to develop
the independent skills she realises she needed
to make this move. "My friends come to me
for help because they don't know how to manage
a budget or organise their time"
At Montessori my children have worked within a
secure learning environment, learning what it
looks like to show respect to someone or something
or self - they learn how. They learn that their
opinion is valued, as is their work.
When they know how to cope with taking responsibility
for themselves they get to make choices, first
small choices like "Which tray will I choose?",
moving into choices like "Is this the sort
of person I want to be?".
My 15 year old now learns in a mainstream setting.
She does not believe that Montessori education
is the optimum choice - and can clearly enunciate
why she believes this. She has the confidence
to voice her opinion and debate it.
My 12 year old is completing his final year at
Montessori Primary. Today he made a presentation
to his peers and those in a younger class about
his proposal to develop a bike track at school.
His goal is to develop this track this year before
he leaves for secondary school. He has developed
his plan, his agenda for meeting with management
and the sequence required to build this track.
His next step is to develop a time line and costing
for this development. This project is supported
and encouraged by his classroom teacher and the
school.
My 10 year old is developing a power point presentation
for his development of "Advanced Future Vehicles".
He is learning this power point skill from another
final year student who is teaching his peers how
to create a power point presentation. This "student
teacher" has prepared lesson plans and timelines
and an evaluation process.' Mother of 4 Montessori
children.
'We needed a school that would truly value our
children, for us this was paramount. we wanted
also, to ensure our children were inan environment
where they themselves take ultimate responsibility
for learning early. A fascinating concept!".
Father of Cycle 1 child
'Because I want my children to maintain their
natural love of learning - not have it drilled
out of them like I did at both religious based
and mainstream schools.' Father of Cycle 2
and Cycle 3 children.
'School is an extension of home. For my children
going to school is like walking into another room
in the house - values and boundaries exist and
so does love and respect.' Parent of Cycle
2 and 3 students.
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